Sunday, June 24, 2007

Ollie & Alex

........................................Ollie... meet Alex!

Alex... meet Ollie!


Alex wants to eat Ollie... (lol)


But Ollie has other ideas! Awww, poor Alex... t's been a long time since a new kitty lover pulled his fur! He really is an amazing cat... he would never ever scratch or bite or even hiss at a child. He's an old kitty (16 yrs old now) with a kind, loving soul. Thanks, Alex for being patient with our new family member! Now... on to meeting Pookie! :)

Saturday, June 23, 2007

U.S.A. Bound!!!

Here we are at the airport! We are very ready to go home!!!


Ollie with his passport! He will leave a Guatemalan citizen and become a citizen of the United States the moment his passport is stamped in Los Angeles!


.........Some of my Hello Kitty snacks? I don't THINK so Ollie Baby!"


....................... Woo hoo! Ollie's very first plane ride!!!

............................Happy Ollie = Happy Daddy!

The pilot invited us to see the cockpit... I explained that this was Oliver's first flight, and the pilot said that it was his too! lol :)


Ollie really wanted to fly the plane! Maybe he'll be a pilot someday!


Meanwhile, Sophie Lu let her Ollie Baby listen to some music before take-0ff...


..................................Then it was time to buckle up!


We had a great view of one of Guatemala's beautiful volcanos... bye bye Guatemala!

................Little Ollie Bear was soon asleep in his Daddy's arms!



......................... Wake up, Ollie Baby... we are landing!!!

......................................We're here! We're here!!!


And since they don't allow cameras in the immigration section, here is the first photo of Ollie Baby, the US Citizen!!!!


Welcome to the United States of America, our sweet Oliver!!! Welcome to your new life!

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Embassy Day Photos (June 8th)




Saturday, June 16, 2007

GC, PGN, Barrios, ASG, & Our BAD experience

As much as we wanted to get home, we were actually a little sad to realize that this would be our last Sunday at the park... We (especially Sophie Lu) had so much fun on Sundays, and we are thankful for the beautiful memories we will always have. We enjoyed our stay in Guatemala City SO much more than our time in Antigua. The people are friendly, and all in all, GC just seemed like a cleaner, safer, more convenient, and happier place to us. We stayed at the Crowne Plaza and were very well taken care of. There is a nice grocery store right next to the hotel, as well as lots of places to eat and play. We had a suite, so we were able to cook in our kitchen- which was nice as well. Here is the view of PGN from the rooftop!

I also want to mention (and there will be more later) that from what I know, PGN is not the black hole that people think it is... it is much more organized and methodical than some would like us to believe. Also, Sr. Barrios isn't the evil one he is made out to be. I know he doesn't take bribes and that he is a compassionate man who wants these babies home and is thankful to the families who adopt the orphaned children of Guatemala. (I know PGN is taking longer than it should- I just think it's not all Barrios's fault and that he doesn't do some of the bad things he is accused of....) If you have been asked for money to pay off Barrios, then I am quite certain the person and/or agency who asked you actually kept the money (sidenote: this did not happen to me). I know there are many many families who believe they have been stuck in PGN for many months, even years- but the fact is, unless there is a minor birthmother or another reason for investigation (suspicion of fraud, etc.), these families are probably not getting the truth about their cases. Some agencies lie to families.... some attorneys/facilitators lie to the agencies (who pass along these lies to their clients without any investigation), etc... These agencies don't hold their contacts in Guatemala accountable for anything and (imo) don't ask questions for fear that they won't get more baby listings. Many times, when you are told you are in PGN, you are actually not. Many times, there are kickouts and it takes the facilitator weeks or months to pick up the file and even longer to fix the previos (mistakes) that shouldn't have been made in the first place. Unless these previos involve something the adoptive parents have to fix, the family and/or agency may never even know about the kickout. All the while, families think they have just been stuck in PGN and/or waiting on Barrios's desk because this is what these agencies WANT people to believe. Then if you question these agencies or tell them the truth you have uncovered about your case, they punish you by threatening your referral, not allowing you to visit, lying to your homestudy agency/social worker, forcing you to get a psychological evaluation or counseling with your Pastor, badmouthing you to other clients, and/or telling you that you don't trust because "You don't trust God and don't have Christ in your heart". (And no, not *all* of these things happened to us personally...) These agencies are supposed to be our advocates, NOT our adversaries. They have a fiduciary responsibility and are contracted to represent us. Once they have your money, they don't even pretend to care anymore...
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My advice if you are adopting from Guatemala is: HIRE HELP. Unless you have a great agency (and there are some) like Palmetto Hope or For This Child (please comment if you can recommend any others), then you will greatly benefit from hiring a private firm. I know we did. We hired Adoption Supervisors Group, and that is the ONLY reason Ollie is home at 8 months old. They saved our adoption, and we will be forever grateful to them for that. It was so comforting to find out the TRUTH about our case(s), to be communicated with on a frequent/consistent basis, and to know that our case was being monitored and cared about. Honestly, after what happened with our first referral (and please don't mention her name), we almost didn't want to proceed with Ollie's adoption because we had no faith that he would come home or that his adoption & paperwork were "clean"... especially after the Department of State started warning Americans not to adopt from Guatemala at all. But again, thanks to ASG (Marco), we regained our faith in the process, we were able to confirm the legitimacy of Ollie's adoption, and now we have our beautiful baby boy home where he belongs. I also want to thank the MANY families with our agency who recommended ASG to us, and I want to promise my continued support to my ever-growing group of friends using our agency who continue to endure the hell of what should have been a beautiful adoption experience.

Here is a link from yesterday that people may find interesting... it is about our agency & one of their current clients: http://forums.adoption.com/guatemala-adoption/300898-so-sad-my-friend-long-rant.html (make sure to read the comments too)

Here is the link for ASG (Adoption Supervisors): http://www.adoptionsupervisors.com/ I will be writing more about them later, but again- I HIGHLY recommend them-


*** I originally meant to show the PGN photo and simply give my opinion of PGN & Barrios, but then I started to ramble and just write what was on my mind. There is so much more to our story, but for many reasons (namely not wanting to hurt others or to have to worry about being hurt or worse), we are leaning toward not sharing it publicly at this time. Mainly, I just want families to know that there IS help, and that you are not alone....

Thursday, June 14, 2007

More Sophie & Ollie



Way behind on my posts

I usually run about a week behind, but now I'm getting even more behind on my posts... In fact, Ollie has some hair now- that's how old these photos are- lol! So, I'm going to be posting the rest of our Guatemala photos for the next few days- and then the homecoming photo shoot! :) Thanks to everyone for your sweet comments and well wishes! I have SO much to catch up on with everyone here! xoxo

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Earthquake (we're fine)

We are home, and we are fine... I'm so glad we left before the earthquake, and I'm praying that everyone in Guatemala is okay- Thanks for your comments/emails and for being concerned about us!

And thanks watching out for me, Val! xoxoxo

Monday, June 11, 2007

Ollie Baby: Poolside! (Swimsuit Edition)












While Ollie wasn't quite sure what to think of his first time in a swimming pool, he sure loved his first pair of swim trunks & posing for the camera (that's my boy)!!! :)

Saturday, June 09, 2007

Ollie's Giggles! (50 second video)



Ollie has the cutest little giggles, and as you can see- he is very ticklish!

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

PINK

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According to my good friends Ashley and Steph, I need to post that Oliver is PINK! I know most people who read this blog are China-adoption blogger friends (I think) and/or family and friends... so I didn't think it was a big deal. :) BUT, we did get our pink slip (and in the Guat Adopt community, they call it PINK) which means we have a US Embassy appointment, and it's THIS Friday! We are scheduled to come home next Tuesday, and it can't come soon enough! I can't wait to brush my teeth with tap water, cook in my own kitchen, sleep in my own bed, and see our kitties! USA, here comes Ollie BABY!!!!

Monday, June 04, 2007

Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow!

Yes, Ollie Baby got a little "haircut", and everyone has been calling him the funniest names! No one can seem to agree which famous bald guy he looks like most... what do YOU think? Vote below and leave a comment saying who you voted for and why! (Just for fun, of course!)


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Saturday, June 02, 2007

Daddy's Boy!

Daddy is in LOVE with his boy! Honestly, I have to fight him for Ollie half the time! :)


Daddy always makes sure Ollie joins in whatever fun his big sister is having!


.........He put Ollie in Sophie's goat-drawn carriage...


And he even put him on Sophie's horsey! Your daddy sure loves you, Ollie Baby!

Friday, June 01, 2007

My First Play Area!

I had so much fun! Mommy took me down my very first slide!

And I got to drive!

Then I posed for a photo with my big sister Sophie Lu...


But I didn't know she was going to push me down the slide! Thank goodness Daddy held on to me!

Yeah, that was fun! I think I'll go back again soon!